When I arrived in China, I was happy to discover that I could buy Oreo cookies. I carried them in my backpack everywhere I went. On many occasions, I shared them with my students. The response was always the same: they would break the cookie into two or three pieces and savor each bite. Sometimes they would save a piece for later in the day. Rarely would they accept a second cookie.
I was in MacDonald's the other day. The napkin-holder had a sign: "Take only what you need!". I watched several customers take inch-thick stacks of napkins to their seat.
I'm spending Labor Day weekend camping with friends. The restroom has a towel dispenser that releases one towel at a time. I noticed several men who pulled out six or eight towels, wadded them up and tossed them into the garbage.
Our children's eye's light up at the sight of a can of pop; they take a few sips and then wander away, forgetting all about it. After all, they know there's plenty more where that came from.
Ours is a culture of surplus. We live in a world of abundance. The value of conserving has been replaced with the value of consuming.
It's the inevitable result of living in a developed (affluent) nation.
It wasn't always this way. Some of us were taught: "Only use two or three sheets of TP." Anybody remember this one: "Waste not - want not"? Remember getting two cents for returning a pop bottle? [In some states, maybe you still do.] How many of you grew up wearing hand-me-downs?
Wealth has changed us!
Adjusting our attitudes and developing a lifestyle of conserving and restraint would be countercultural and would have to be intentional. You would be in the minority. But, you would have the self-satisfaction of knowing that you are bucking a flagrant trend in our culture.
The greatest challenge (and opportunity) comes for those who are still parenting 'at-home' children! You have the amazing capacity of teaching your children through your words and your modeling! You can truly make a generational difference.
Learning to appreciate what we have is a great goal! Deliberately practicing restraint has its own internal rewards!