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Showing posts with label Compromise. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Compromise. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 6, 2026

COMPROMISE

Before King David died, he made certain that Solomon was appointed as king in his place!

Solomon, at that point, was fully dedicated to the Lord God! He fulfilled the wishes of his father, David, and established his kingdom with the full acceptance of the people of Judah [southern kingdom, 2 tribes] and Israel [northern kingdom, 10 tribes – eventually known as Samaria].

Early in his rule, God gave him a dream in which He said: “What can I give you? Ask.”

Solomon’s response to God in this dream was beautiful:  I Kings 3:6-9 TM 

[All scripture quotes from The Message Bible unless otherwise noted]

“You were extravagantly generous in love with David my father, and he lived faithfully in your presence, his relationships were just and his heart right. And you have persisted in this great and generous love by giving him—and this very day!—a son to sit on his throne.

 

“And now here I am: God, my God, you have made me, your servant, ruler of the kingdom in place of David my father. I’m too young for this, a mere child! I don’t know the ropes, hardly know the ‘ins’ and ‘outs’ of this job. And here I am, set down in the middle of the people you’ve chosen, a great people—far too many to ever count.

 

“Here’s what I want: Give me a God-listening heart so I can lead your people well, discerning the difference between good and evil. For who on their own is capable of leading your glorious people?”

God’s response was one of great pleasure:  [vs.10-14]

God, the Master, was delighted with Solomon’s response. And God said to him,

 

“Because you have asked for this and haven’t grasped after a long life, or riches, or the doom of your enemies, but you have asked for the ability to lead and govern well, I’ll give you what you’ve asked for—I’m giving you a wise and mature heart. There’s never been one like you before; and there’ll be no one after. As a bonus, I’m giving you both the wealth and glory you didn’t ask for—there’s not a king anywhere who will come up to your mark. And if you stay on course, keeping your eye on the life-map and the God-signs as your father David did, I’ll also give you a long life.”

 At the end of chapter four, Solomon’s wisdom is described in remarkable terms:  [vs.10-14]

God gave Solomon wisdom—the deepest of understanding and the largest of hearts. There was nothing beyond him, nothing he couldn’t handle. Solomon’s wisdom outclassed the vaunted wisdom of wise men of the East, outshone the famous wisdom of Egypt. He was wiser than anyone—wiser than Ethan the Ezrahite, wiser than Heman, wiser than Calcol and Darda the sons of Mahol. He became famous among all the surrounding nations. He created 3,000 proverbs; his songs added up to 1,005. He knew all about plants, from the huge cedar that grows in Lebanon to the tiny hyssop that grows in the cracks of a wall. He understood everything about animals and birds, reptiles and fish. Sent by kings from all over the earth who had heard of his reputation, people came from far and near to listen to the wisdom of Solomon.

All of this causes us to be quite impressed with this young leader!  But as I was reading through these passages this morning I noticed a verse that indicates a chink in Solomon’s character. 

Solomon loved God and continued to live in the God-honoring ways of David his father, except that he also worshiped at the local shrines, offering sacrifices and burning incense.  [3:3]

It’s a minor observation – hardly worth mentioning, right?

It may be an indication that Solomon was a people-pleaser. He didn’t want to offend any of the groups who believed in these shrines; so he participated in their worship, even to the extent of offering sacrifices and burning incense.

We’re immediately reminded of the first two commandments:  [Deuteronomy 5:7-9]

No other gods, only me.

 

No carved gods of any size, shape, or form of anything whatever, whether of things that fly or walk or swim. Don’t bow down to them and don’t serve them because I am God, your God, and I’m a most jealous God.

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King Solomon began building the Temple in the fourth year of his reign and completed it in his eleventh year.  At that point, the [unknown] author of Kings made an astute observation about Solomon:  [I Kings 11:1-8]

King Solomon was obsessed with women. Pharaoh’s daughter was only the first of the many foreign women he loved—Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite. He took them from the surrounding pagan nations of which God had clearly warned Israel,

 

“You must not marry them; they’ll seduce you into infatuations with their gods.” Solomon fell in love with them anyway, refusing to give them up. He had seven hundred royal wives and three hundred concubines—a thousand women in all! And they did seduce him away from God. As Solomon grew older, his wives beguiled him with their alien gods and he became unfaithful—he didn’t stay true to his God as his father David had done. Solomon took up with Ashtoreth, the whore goddess of the Sidonians, and Molech, the horrible god of the Ammonites.

 

Solomon openly defied God; he did not follow in his father David’s footsteps. He went on to build a sacred shrine to Chemosh, the horrible god of Moab, and to Molech, the horrible god of the Ammonites, on a hill just east of Jerusalem. He built similar shrines for all his foreign wives, who then polluted the countryside with the smoke and stench of their sacrifices.

 

Obviously, God saw all that Solomon had done and reacted:  [I Kings 11:9-13]

God was furious with Solomon for abandoning the God of Israel, the God who had twice appeared to him and had so clearly commanded him not to fool around with other gods. Solomon faithlessly disobeyed God’s orders.

 

God said to Solomon, “Since this is the way it is with you, that you have no intention of keeping faith with me and doing what I have commanded, I’m going to rip the kingdom from you and hand it over to someone else. But out of respect for your father David I won’t do it in your lifetime. It’s your son who will pay—I’ll rip it right out of his grasp. Even then I won’t take it all; I’ll leave him one tribe in honor of my servant David and out of respect for my chosen city Jerusalem.”

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COMPROMISE IS OUR ENEMY!

In the very beginning, Solomon harbored a small space for compromise. It grew and multiplied until it replaced his deep devotion to God!

We’re all susceptible to this kind of undermining! We weaken the foundations of our love for God and devotion to His ways by holding on to certain practices or beliefs. At first, they don’t seem so bad. It may be ‘just our little secret’.  But, over time, they grow and begin to take on greater power and influence in our lives.

The end result can be tragic – THE LOSS OF OUR FAITH AND THE DISCREDITING OF OUR WITNESS!

Compromise has no place in a Christian’s life! Our dedication to God and His ways must be absolute! God will only accept first place in our lives! He must be on the throne!

If compromise has been part of your life, you are not deceiving God! He knows!

We must confess these secret desires or practices and terminate them!

We must daily declare our loyalty to God by devoting ourselves fully to His ways! 

Perhaps without realizing it, this wise man – Solomon – passed on devastating circumstances to his heirs.  The degeneration of his faith precipitated the utter failure and godlessness of the next generation! We must be diligent to pass on faithfulness, integrity and devotion to our follow-up generations!  Their destiny depends on our consistency!

Friday, March 9, 2012

EXECUTE YOUR WIFE?

I just read Deuteronomy 13.  In this chapter God warns the people of Israel not to tolerate anyone who tries to get them to worship other gods.  The penalty for doing so is death!

(vs.6-9a  LB)  If your nearest relative or closest friend, even a brother, son,  daughter, or beloved wife whispers to you to come and worship these foreign gods, do not consent nor listen, and have no pity:  Do not spare that person from the penalty;  don't conceal his horrible suggestion.  Execute him!

Yikes!  That's strong!  This is a NO COMPROMISE situation!  Don't even crack the door open to the possibility of worshiping or serving another God.

Deuteronomy 5:7  (NASB)
You shall have no other gods before Me.

In the next chapter God talks about the foods they can and cannot eat.  Then He addresses the topic of tithing.  Verse 23 (LB) reads:  The purpose of tithing is to teach you always to put God first in your lives. 

TWO PRINCIPLES:
  1. No compromise when it comes to serving God!
  2. Put God first in everything!
A 'No' and a 'Yes'. 

NO  -  Don't even give a nod to other gods!

YES  -  Deliberately give a tenth of your earnings to God as an expression of your submission to Him and love for Him!  Let this giving catalyze His leadership in every area of your life!

EVALUATE:

Is your only allegiance to God?
     Can other people see that by your values and priorities?

Are you tithing? 
     Are you putting God first in every area of your life?

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

PEANUT BUTTER CUPS!

Back in the summer, I set a goal of losing twenty pounds by the end of the 2011.  I started eating healthy in September and lost the twenty pounds in six weeks!

Recently, however, I've been slipping.  It started with some dessert at Thanksgiving.  Then, I bought some chocolate-covered pretzels - pretzels are healthy, right?  Saturday I bought a bag of peanut butter cups - peanut butter is good for you, right?

Surpize!  I've gained five pounds.

Switch gears.

Very few people simply walk away from God!  Notice the language we've adopted that describes the cooling of our relationship with Him:
  • We back-slide! 
  • We fall away.
  • We drift from Him.

INSIGHT:

This process of becoming distant from God always begins with COMPROMISE!

I make little decisions that affect my relationship in small ways. 

When that little change doesn't make a huge difference, it seems to release me to make another small change;  and then another;  and then another.

Each compromise is gradually but persistently taking me further from God!  It takes awhile for me to realize that I've "drifted".  When I do realize it, it's difficult (nearly impossible) for me to track it back to that original decision of compromise (because it was so subtle).

Once I realize that I've drifted, I can do something about it!  I can create change in a positive way.  I can reinstate disciplines and cut away sinful practices.  I can quit eating peanut butter cups!

Saturday, October 22, 2011

COMPROMISE

I believe that compromise is killing the church in America!  Many are currently writing about the fact that Christians are indistinguishable from secular people. 

Essentially, we watch the same movies and television shows.  We dress alike, talk alike, share the same desires, and live the same lifestyles.

The insidious drifting caused by compromise affects us all. 

Yet it is so diificult to discuss this trend without appearing to be legalistic. 

A personal reflection:
  • There was a time when I didn't eat in bars;  I now do so without thinking.
  • There was a time when I didn't buy on Sundays;  I now do so without thinking.
  • I watch television shows now that I would have shut off fifteen years ago.
  • I'm disappointed with myself for some of the movies I've sat through.
I also see it around me in family and friends:
  • "Christian" couples who engage in premarital sex.
  • "Christians" who consume alcohol.
  • "Christians" who view pornography.
  • "Christians" who use profanities.

This reality impacts the fact that we are closing churches at a record rate.  The percentage of Americans who attend worship continues to plummet.  
Compromise on issues like homosexuality is causing phenomenal membership losses in mainline denominations. 

Nations in Asia, Africa, and Latin America are now sending missionaries to America! 

What is going to happen in the long run?  Will this turn around?  What will cause it to reverse?  If it doesn't reverse, how will it impact the future of our nation?

Where are the new Christian strongholds?  Who will carry the torch for Christ in the 21st century?