I was twenty-four years old when I received my appointment to the Jeannette, PA Free Methodist Church. Debbie and I had been married almost three years. Travis was three-months old.
The congregation had just built a brand new facility on twelve acres of property outside of Harrison City - right in the middle of a new development of homes. However, the congregation had divided over the building process and the pastor had left after preaching only a few times in the new building.
I had been pastor at a small, country church in the Hoosier Mountains of southern Indiana for a year-and-a-half. I had a college degree and three years of seminary training. I thought I knew it all! I set out to grow the greatest church anyone had ever seen!
Evenelle Gess, a leading lay-woman, started taking me around to meet the members before our boxes were unpacked [we lived in a 70' mobile home behind the new church].
Since people were most likely to be home in the evenings, I was gone night-after-night visiting! Days were spent at the church trying to prepare for Sundays and Wednesdays. I was home very little.
I drove a 1974 Mustang II at the time. One evening, returning home late, my lights flashed on the small, front porch - it looked like luggage sitting there. When I approached the front door of our trailer-home, it was my luggage - packed with my clothes. The door was locked.
I knocked. Her angry voice from inside said, "What?"
I said, "Let me in."
She said, "No!" Then, she lowered the boom: "If you want to be married to the church, go live in the church!"
[More tomorrow]
Sorry for laughing, you go Debbie! But, I didn't miss the point either. Joyce
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